Introduction: When Anxiety Hits Like a Tsunami

Anxiety struck me like a ton of bricks this morning. My limbs felt weak, my heart pounded, and my nerves were completely shot. The tingling sensation of stress coursed through my body like an electric current. I was spiraling—and fast.

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What triggered this overwhelming response?

I had to face a moment of truth—a court case confronting an injustice from my past. Despite all the personal growth, breathing exercises, and mindset work I’ve done, I found myself on edge. It was as if everything I taught about staying calm and centered had washed away in an unannounced tsunami.

But this moment was my test. Would I succumb to fear, or would I rise and take control?

Understanding Anxiety: Why Does It Hit So Hard?

Anxiety isn’t just “in your head.” It’s a biological response. When faced with perceived threats, our nervous system activates the fight-or-flight response, flooding our bodies with adrenaline and cortisol.

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According to the American Psychological Association (2025), anxiety disorders affect over 40 million adults, with stress-induced responses increasing due to our fast-paced, high-performance lifestyles. Corporate women and entrepreneurs—like my avatar, Leslie—are among the most affected.

Triggers, especially linked to past trauma, can reignite intense emotions—even when we think we’ve healed. The key is recognizing the trigger and implementing a strategy to regain control.

Step 1: Recognizing the Trigger

I had to pause and ask myself: What exactly is making me feel this way?

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It hit me—I was triggered by past trauma associated with the very person I had to see in court. Despite years of therapy and self-work, my body and subconscious mind still remembered the pain. Triggers don’t mean failure; they’re signs that deeper healing is needed.

What You Can Do:

  • Take a mental inventory of what’s causing your anxiety.
  • Write it down—journaling can help process subconscious fears.
  • Remind yourself: This is a response, not reality. I am safe now.

Step 2: Activating the Calming Response

Once I recognized the trigger, it was time to take control. Here’s what worked:

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  1. Deep Breathing (Even When It Feels Impossible)
    Inhale deeply for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, and exhale slowly for 6 seconds. Repeat 10 times.
    This signals the brain to shift from fight-or-flight to a calm state.
  2. Engage Your Support System
    I called my inner circle—my husband, best friend Hannah, and my mom. Just hearing their voices helped me ground myself.
    Takeaway: Surround yourself with trusted people who uplift and strengthen you.
  3. Use Power Declarations & Affirmations
    I stood in front of my mirror and declared:
    I am powerful.
    I am strong.
    I will speak with clarity and wisdom.
    I control my emotions, not the other way around.

Research from the Neuroscience Institute of 2025 shows that verbal affirmations reshape neural pathways, creating new patterns of thought that influence behavior and emotional responses.

Step 3: Walking Into the Fire with Confidence

After practicing these techniques, I entered the courtroom with clarity and confidence. Was I completely anxiety-free? No—but my anxiety had dropped from 150% to 10%.

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This is the reality: Anxiety doesn’t disappear overnight, but we can manage it effectively. The key is having the right tools and using them consistently.

Success Starts Here: Your Anxiety Reset Plan
Feeling anxious before a big moment? Use this 3-minute reset plan:
✅ Step 1: Breathe deeply – Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4, exhale for 6. Repeat.
✅ Step 2: Identify your trigger – Write it down, say it out loud, and remind yourself you are in control.
✅ Step 3: Speak affirmations – Say three power statements to rewire your mindset.
✅ Step 4: Engage your support – Call a trusted friend or mentor for encouragement.
✅ Step 5: Walk forward with confidence – Even if anxiety lingers, take the step anyway. Action reduces fear.

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Final Thoughts: You Have the Power
Anxiety is a part of life—but it doesn’t have to define you. With the right tools, support, and mindset, you can rise above it.

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